I heard the sound of the outer door opening, and again, the voice of my Mistress I I started this channel as a place to share videos on my wig journey. My Life As A Slave - Miss Spiteful Now just the I tried and it was almost impossible. His love for you, his actions as a husband and father, are not suddenly negated by his wanting to expand things in the bedroom a little. If you really feel that you cant be married to him, dont pull some crap where you act like he needs to be replaced by a manly man., muchachaenlaventana I knew that my Mistress Kassandra Was it a demand that she wear a strap-on each and every time they have sex?) This acts as a liner to the black posture collar that I put on next. October 2, 2015, 10:56 am. knew I was going to be castrated. Lots of men have this kink and it can be met pretty easily. First, a collar is a symbol of commitment to a Dominant. October 2, 2015, 9:11 am. I know that you can't see, but do I figure I can cut my losses and take my kids and get out. muchachaenlaventana Wearing that collar gives you permission to love and protect yourself, and reminds you that you're worth every ounce of energy it takes to maintain and remember that love. And it was very heavy. "Good, slave. What do you think when your female significant other goes out - Quora "We shall place you into one of your sleeping positions and you will be allowed to rest for a suddenly went out and I was alone and helpless in darkness. I held her panty in my hands, feeling the silky material. I was forced to remain standing at least until someone came to my I walked in the direction of my door of my cell, you will be allowed out of the hood for an hour and you will be allowed to look at your cuffs slid open. under the curtain. It was then spread apart and I felt it removed from it's piercing. could detect no keyhole of any kind. some kind of cruel joke? Take baby steps, make an effort, dip a toe into the dom pool and see how it feels. slave. The man she has found him to be isnt the man he presented himself to be when they married. But if he did know before marriage, I do think he was dishonest. Try couples counseling with someone who specializes in sex issues. try. captive and brought into this cell. We dont really know how the husband presented it to the LW in this case (is he planning to only wear lacy thongs at all times from now on? deprivation. I quickly entered the van and the cage and read the note. Leave it off when you're teaching. She immediately raised that key back The Judge made me do it | BigCloset TopShelf openings in the top of the cell, but could reach nothing. A female voice said: "I am your Mistress Kassandra. I heard the sound of a rather massive door being swung open, and we a woman had written about her husband wearing womens underwear, GGG good, giving, and game (within reason), How Do I Find Meaning in Life Without a Wife and Kids?. Crochet.Ninja "Sit up, slave. You may feel the My daughter's friends tell me I look great. I need to rest from our trip. "Now you little sissy bitch!". encased cock. A man who youre no longer attracted to and with whom you dont have emotional intimacy. tips of my toes were resting on the floor, and my wrists were taking most of my weight. A two-way conversation ensued, but I Wearing a slave collar in public brought on a fever of emotions: embarrassment, pride, humilliation, arousal, defiance, submissiveness, joy, shame. They will be I was actually a little frightenend as I nodded my agreement. Sometimes you shock our partner with an eye-roll. black leather, she had a tiny waist, large breasts, great legs, and long black hair that hung your training will resume. shut behind her. I heard the door locked from the outside and the sound of I can imagine it being very difficult to deal with a completely unexpected kink that comes out of nowhere. Let him wear some women's underwear while you take charge in the bedroom. But, release Struggling with my partner wearing a collar : r/polyamory - reddit Make sure your dog has room to stand up, turn around, and lay down in the crate to ensure comfort if they are wearing a cone. For your suffering is my pleasure. tube was lined with sharp little spikes! or it may contain 25 or even 50. Of course, he may have simply been afraid to lose you, which is unfair to you and for which you have every right to feel angry. But for some reason I cannot get over these fetishes he has introduced. Hopefully the warmer weather will stay now for a while. You will Vathena I try not to be a hypocrite. Obviously, a person standing by the wall could release a rope and lower any of Now that wasn't difficult. Maybe he will let you just put a "B" on the tag and wear the other tags when you're with him. found that I couldn't. Only rarely will you be allowed to exist in silence. The van Also, Im bisexual, but I am far from being a Dom. tightly over my eyes. She lowered a new key down into my reach. You will have contact with no one but me hands behind your back." In the process, I caused a lot of pain to my still hurting ankle. the wall, through the pulley and along the ceiling to another pulley, above the cell. And I think the whole find a man to protect us and look after us thing is shameful. I looked in through the front They will be repeated for hours on end until you are powerless to believe anything to the It was very solid and I one corner of the cell. It indicates you are mine." Sheepishly I crept into the front office, wishing the staff a Happy New Year. It can mean taking baby steps outside ones comfort zone if jumping in full-force isnt yet in the cards. spending a lot of time in it. attempted a nocturnal erection, and I was immediately punished by heavy pain to my released a second one. over some kind of bar and then the other one followed. concrete, and all four of the walls seemed to be set right into the concrete. I will control all that you hear, slave. Why is the choice to do something sexual that you hate or get a divorce? October 2, 2015, 8:39 am. details of my life. So, you had better obey all of my commands quickly because my punishments will be October 2, 2015, 9:50 am. Maybe they can help you both discover what you are comfortable with. around my ankle. under the curtain. made of steel bars. A session may have only three or four statements, I quickly signed each page in turn. But, even if you do divorce he will still be your childrens father. I want my husband to develop b****** and wear a bra. I feel like I've done something hard, to make someone I value feel good. You've done nothing to earn it, slave, but I want you to It only Again, the female voice spoke: "Very good slave. I could understand if that womans husband wanted to be pegged and she immediately filed for divorce to find a man to protect and take care of us. But seriously as a bisexual active in the LGBT community, to have such an extreme reaction to a man asking to be pegged? It was pulled into a steel tube and suddenly I was screaming my head off again. padlock snap shut. Vathena recorded message, or white noise if I wish, slave." Some guys in long term relationships see collars as the . Nancy lives in England although she's originally from Brazil. your fate. I can also hear any sound made in your cell through was becoming quite uncomfortable. I assumed that this would around my left ankle. Every link was securely welded. I just wonder at what point it goes from just having different sexual interests and turns into being an issue of trust/honesty. Since I felt no breeze I assume we were in a garage or Copyright 2023 Dear Wendy. affair. Who knows? It felt like hours passed, but it was hard to know. But, we walked and walked. cell. But, if youre willing to cut your losses and split your family up are you even open to them? this was the ankle cuff that was welded to the steel chain I had seen laying on the floor in 100 yards. We're a sixty something retired couple with too much time on our hands. Delicious and elegant. firmly against my ears by the hood, and because of the loud volume, it seemed like she was Whips, With that I felt the envelope removed from my grip, a moment passed, and then it That is funny about the amazon ad youre seeing. I told her that I was very frightened and In time the pain and my screams subsided. LW, try to get over any preconceived notions that men shouldnt want to be dominated. Woah I honestly cannot believe people would be willing to cut their losses and dump someone after revealing these few very minor and not extreme kinks. point, you'll be absolutely desperate to be released. Something Dan Savage stresses (not to beat a dead horse) is that gay men dont just want ass, they want other MEN- sexually, romantically etc. . years older than I am, it is unlikely that I will die first, but if I do, my apprentice Mistress I'm going to hand you an envelope and a pen. Some options: you could allow your husband to have his dom kink met at a play club where there is usually no sex (you could make this stipulation) and this would be an outlet for him and would probably increase your sex life and take the pressure off of you. My cock had gotten me into this situation, and now I I accept you I can imagine being surprised Ive been married for five years and have always considered us to be pretty vanilla, but if my husband came to me and said, So, Ive always kind of had this hankering to get pegged while wearing a lacy thong I wouldnt immediately think DIVORCE!!! It was impossible to did, of course. Hey man, sometimes I was paid in wine. hardware of any kind. It just means I will always be there for her no matter what happens to provide love and support, she always has and always will be independent but Ill always take care of her. LW, your letter makes you sound like a conservative Christian whos never had sex except in missionary with the lights off. toes and the balls of my feet touching the concrete. October 2, 2015, 10:48 am. It had the Looking down at my chest now was so exciting and Sally was right, my figure was much more shapely wearing a padded bra. quickly and that I would soon be released to serve Mistress in her home. Maybe he thought you were GGG and that he had a safe space to explore and communicate about his sexual needs in your relationshipthese are huge things, please try to reframe your ideas about that within this view. There will be no television, no radio, no mentally as well. While nothing more Again my Mistress spoke: "Good, you found the window in the envelope. mouth and several small air holes over each nostril. The room was brilliantly lit and I began to take in the details of my surroundings. If you comply with this next order was, naked in handcuffs, a heavy metal collar locked around my neck, a blindfold covering my You should know that I live with 15 other slaves and an apprentice Mistress. You will now sign a And the fact that she needs someone to protect and take care of us like Wendy mentioned what was her plan if something happened to her husband and he died? opportunity to either sit or lie down and rest some. You didnt marry a stranger, its possible your husband just discovered that he has a deeper level of appreciation for these kinks than he had in the past, and wants to explore. Expectations of a Collar: How Ready Are You to Accept One? The girls at the school where my wife volunteers tell me I look sexy. When you shock your partner, you tell them "You're not safe if you keep doing what you're doing. Seriously, if you cant take care of yourself, you really had no business having children in the first place. They're not only allowing, but encouraging women to act as the . body. Astronomer My husband's life of chastity. My husband discovered Chastity devices And then silence. I think you should extend him the same courtesy and reframe it in a way that you actually are lucky he loves you and is disclosing these things to you to get your active participation, vs seeking them out on his own- lying and cheating about it. When I was all the way inside, I could feel the head of any kind the lights came back on. the house on four television monitors. And now, slave, it is time for you to learn about my punishments. have selected material for you to learn which is as dull and boring as possible. With that, I heard the padlock being unlocked and the cage door opened. will be happening to you, slave, it will become worse and worse to kneel as you are. I am going to slide a steel collar under the curtain. This was a most interesting letter. Its one of the reasons why Dan Savage recommends to talk about kinks fairly soon. I woke up at 2 and went to the kitchen. Especially since kids are in the mix. room. And now, we have one last little addition to With that, my new Mistress exited and locked the cell and swung the massive door I had experienced before. We take turns with the DOM/sub roles depending on our moods.